Darren Elliott

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Author, Speaker, Registered Psychotherapist, Trauma Survivor

🔹 Short Intro Bio (to read at the beginning):
Darren Elliott is a Registered Psychotherapist, author, and creator of The Narcissism Recovery Project. He’s also the voice behind Doreen Devine™—a recovering narcissist drag queen comedian bringing truth in heels to heavy topics like emotional abuse, political gaslighting, and relational healing. Darren’s newest book, The United States of Disconnection, is a cultural wake-up call that blends psychology, memoir, and political insight with warmth, wit, and radical compassion.

🔹 Suggested Topics & Talking Points:
* What narcissism really is—and what it isn’t
* How narcissistic traits show up in families, relationships, politics, and culture
* The collective trauma of emotional disconnection in the U.S. since 2016
* What it’s like to be a therapist and a singing drag queen (as Doreen Devine™)
* Tools for recovery and relational repair—starting with Love Loops™

🔹 Great Questions to Ask Darren:
1. What made you want to write The United States of Disconnection*?*
2. How do you define narcissism, and why is it so misunderstood?
3. What’s the link between narcissism and politics today—especially in the U.S.?
4. Tell us about Doreen Devine. How did a drag queen become part of this project?
5. How can someone start healing from narcissistic abuse?
6. What’s one thing you wish every listener understood about emotional growth?

🔹 Good to Know:
* Darren blends therapeutic insight with real-world language—he’s not clinical or dry.
* He’s comfortable talking about current events, religion, Trump, queer identity, and masculinity.
* He can get emotional and grounded—or playful and witty—as the conversation flows.
* If you're open to it, he’ll end with a practical takeaway or affirmation for your listeners.

Thanks again—looking forward to connecting with you and your audience!
Warmly,
Darren
TheNarcissismRecoveryProject.com

The United States of Disconnection Free Pre-released Unedited Confidential Version

Americans needs to Love what they’ve been taught to Fear. (Each other.)

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1sMj4fgAUjFaASH_3_0Sv19kyKnOmjliM/edit?usp=sharing&ouid=117976156740278663250&rtpof=true&sd=true

The United States of Disconnection is not just a book about narcissism—it’s a cultural wake-up call wrapped in compassion. Psychotherapist Darren Elliott gently reveals how the same emotional abuse patterns we see in toxic relationships are now playing out on a national scale—through politics, religion, social media, and even family life. But instead of blame or shame, he offers understanding, personal stories, and a pathway to healing—both individually and together. This book helps readers recognize the narcissistic behaviors they’ve normalized, and shows them how to reconnect—with empathy, with loved ones, and with themselves. It’s for anyone wondering, “What happened to us?”—and ready to be part of the answer.
Coming Soon: Love LoopsTM Personal Growth Guides and Workbooks for creating Love Loops in your life, and your community, one Loop at a time. Free resources to start your own Love LoopsTM Group and start the movement of learning to love each other again.