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April 24, 2025

Reclaiming Emotional Life: Finding Hope in George's Story of Resilience

Welcome back to the blog! This week, we will hear the incredibly powerful story of George Muzzy, whose journey of rediscovering emotions after decades of numbness is nothing short of remarkable. In my latest episode, 65- "I am 1 in 3 times 3"--Georg…

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April 17, 2025

When Fame and Fortune Shield Abusers: A Systemic Problem

In my latest podcast episode, 64-Mel Gibson's Domestic Abuse: How Money and Power Trump Justice, I delved into a case that starkly illustrates a disturbing reality: the rich and famous often operate under a different set of rules, especially when it…

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April 10, 2025

Letting Go of the 'Why': Focusing on Self-Healing Instead of Obsessing Over the Abuser

It’s a natural human response to seek understanding, especially when faced with traumatic experiences like abuse. The question "Why?" echoes in our minds, driving us to dissect the abuser's motivations and behaviors. However, dwelling on the "…

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April 3, 2025

Understanding the Link: Intimate Partner Violence and Suicide Risk

Welcome to the 1 in 3 podcast blog! In this post, I'll be delving deeper into a critical issue discussed in my latest episode, 62-The Deadly Connection Between Intimate Partner Violence and Suicide Risk With Jessica Maerz, featuring Jessica Maerz, a…

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March 27, 2025

Letting Go of the Good and the Bad: Finding Peace After Domestic Violence

Leaving an abusive relationship is a monumental step towards reclaiming your life. However, the journey doesn't end the moment you walk out the door. In fact, it's often just the beginning of a complex and challenging healing process. This blog post…

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March 19, 2025

The Moment of Clarity: When Children Become Pawns in Abuse

Welcome to the blog, Warriors! In my latest episode, 60-Domestic Violence AUTHOR and WARRIOR: Emma Jean Rowin; Part 2, I continued my conversation with Emma Jean Rowin, author and advocate, delving deeper into the realities of domestic abuse and its…

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March 13, 2025

Why Smart People Stay in Toxic Relationships: Understanding the Psychology of Abuse

This blog post delves into the complex psychological factors that often trap individuals, regardless of intelligence or capability, in abusive relationships. We'll explore the insidious nature of abuse, examining how blame, excuses, and the gradual …

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March 6, 2025

Communication Strategies for High-Conflict Co-Parenting

Co-parenting after a separation or divorce can be incredibly challenging, especially when high conflict is involved. This blog post expands on the key communication strategies discussed in my latest podcast episode, 58-Navigating High-Conflict Co-Pa…

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Feb. 27, 2025

Resilience in the Face of High-Conflict Co-Parenting

This blog post expands on the powerful story shared by Marisol in episode 57 of the 1in3 podcast. It delves into her remarkable journey of resilience while navigating the incredibly challenging landscape of high-conflict co-parenting. We will explor…

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Feb. 20, 2025

Understanding the Unique Challenges of Domestic Violence in Indian Marriages

This blog post delves into the complex issue of domestic violence within Indian marriages, exploring the cultural and societal factors that significantly impact victims' experiences and their ability to seek help. It expands on the themes discussed …

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Feb. 13, 2025

Holistic Healing: An Integrative Approach to Trauma Recovery

This blog post delves into the powerful role of holistic healing in the recovery journey for survivors of domestic violence. It expands on the insights shared by Dr. Anisha, an integrative medicine practitioner and trauma specialist, in my latest po…

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Feb. 6, 2025

Building Self-Confidence: Practical Strategies from Sheena Yap Chan

This blog post delves into the practical advice and techniques shared by Sheena Yap Chan in my recent podcast episode, "54-Exploring Self-Confidence with Sheena Yap Chan," offering actionable steps to cultivate self-esteem and conquer self-doubt. We…

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Jan. 30, 2025

Systemic Failures in Domestic Violence Cases: The Deanna Cook Story

This blog post delves into the tragic death of Deanna Cook, examining the systemic failures that allowed her abuser to take her life despite her repeated attempts to seek help. I will explore the shortcomings in law enforcement response, the gaps in…

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Jan. 23, 2025

The Importance of Believing Survivors and Combating Isolation Tactics

This blog post delves into the crucial role of believing survivors of domestic violence and dispels common misconceptions surrounding false accusations. We'll also explore the manipulative isolation tactics abusers employ and provide strategies to c…

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Jan. 16, 2025

The Zen of Letting Go: Finding Peace After Domestic Abuse

In my recent podcast episode, 51-Domestic Violence WARRIOR and AUTHOR: Antoinette Foxworthy; Part 2, I delved into the profound experiences of domestic abuse survivors and explored the powerful concept of letting go as a path to healing. This blog p…

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Jan. 9, 2025

Book Review: No More by Antoinette Foxworthy

In this blog post, I delve into a powerful and poignant novel, No More, by Antoinette Foxworthy. This book, which we discussed extensively in my recent podcast episode, 50-Domestic Violence WARRIOR and AUTHOR: Antoinette Foxworthy; Part 1, offers a …

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Dec. 19, 2024

Creating a Safety Plan for the Holidays: Protecting Yourself and Your Loved Ones

The holiday season, a time often associated with joy and togetherness, can unfortunately also be a period of heightened risk for individuals experiencing domestic violence. In this blog post, expanding on our recent podcast episode, we'll explore th…

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Nov. 14, 2024

My Journey From Victim to Advocate: A Domestic Violence Survivor's Story

This blog post expands on my personal journey from being a victim of domestic violence to becoming an advocate for others. It details the challenges I faced, the transformative process of healing, and the importance of seeking help. This is a story …

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Nov. 7, 2024

Caitlynne's Law: A Mother's Fight for Justice and Bail Reform

The Tragic Story of Caitlynne Guajardo This blog post delves into the heartbreaking case of Caitlynne Guajardo, a young woman whose life was tragically cut short by her husband, Alex Daniel Guajardo. This isn't just a story of domestic violence; it…

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Oct. 17, 2024

Understanding Teen Dating Violence: Recognizing the Signs and Empowering Young People

This blog post expands on the crucial conversation I had with A. Garcia in my latest podcast episode, 42-Confronting Domestic Violence: A. Garcia; Part 1. We delve into the often-hidden reality of teen dating violence, exploring the warning signs, t…

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Oct. 10, 2024

Understanding Trauma Bonds in Domestic Violence

This blog post delves into the complex phenomenon of trauma bonds, exploring why victims often remain trapped in abusive relationships. I'll examine the psychological mechanisms that perpetuate this cycle and use Michelle Johnson's powerful story, a…

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Oct. 3, 2024

The Courage to Leave: Understanding the Systemic Barriers Faced by Domestic Violence Survivors

This blog post expands on the themes explored in my latest podcast episode, 39-October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, which delves into the harrowing realities faced by survivors of domestic violence. I'll examine the systemic barriers that p…

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July 25, 2024

The Emotional Toll of Legal Abuse for Domestic Violence Survivors

In this blog post, I delve into the often-overlooked aspect of domestic violence: the emotional devastation inflicted by navigating the legal system. This post expands on the powerful story shared by Viv in my latest podcast episode, 38-Domestic Vio…

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May 2, 2024

Understanding the Cycle of Stalking and Domestic Violence in Clare Bernal's Case

This blog post delves into the tragic case of Clare Bernal, exploring the cyclical nature of stalking and domestic violence that ultimately led to her murder. I will analyze the patterns of abuse she experienced, highlighting how seemingly innocuous…

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